If you are going through a divorce and you have children, one of your most important responsibilities is to agree with your soon-to-be ex-spouse on parenting issues. No matter how difficult it is to communicate, you should do everything possible to make decisions that are right for your family. In many cases, Todd J. Zimmer & Associates can help.
Parenting Agreements
Parenting plans and agreements are written documents defining how parents will share decision-making and time with children. These agreements help to pave the way to a successful co-parenting relationship because there are clear expectations and fewer conflicts.
When an agreement is created, ex-spouses can discuss issues that may come up, and how they’ll be handled. Parenting agreements can be converted into court orders, for extra reassurance in the event that a spouse does not cooperate. Covered topics should include:
* Living arrangements/physical custody
* Visitation rights
* Child support, living expenses and other financial issues
* Medical care
* Education
* Holidays
* Religious training
* Creating a Parenting Agreement
Ex-spouses can work together to create a parenting agreement, or they can hire a child custody lawyer, mediator or professional. No matter which approach is chosen, it’s wise to assemble and examine the necessary documents before beginning. If you are divorcing or in custody proceedings, you may need:
* Court documents such as petitions, responses, complaints and affidavits
* Letters from mediators, counselors, attorneys and court officials regarding paternity, divorce, custody or visitation
* Court orders on divorce, custody or separation
* Previous agreements between parents
* Marriage dissolution documents pertaining to your religion
* Reports and evaluations from school counselors and others who can provide insights on your children
Once you have a parenting agreement, it is wise to have it reviewed and approved by a family court judge. The plan can be part of your divorce settlement, or it can be filed separately–either way, it must be signed by a judge to be enforced. Divorce and child custody can be contentious issues, but they do not have to be. Hiring a Suffolk County NY Child Support Lawyer can help you ensure that the situation is resolved fairly, quickly and conveniently for all involved.
