Couples spend countless hours and even months preparing for a lifetime of marital bliss with the one they love. They plan a perfect proposal, spend months, even years planning an elaborate wedding and set off to enjoy a lifetime of happiness. This is typical protocol, especially for couples who are caught up in the excitement of planning and the wedding day. Premarital counseling in Newport Beach CA is highly encouraged in order for couples to set the stage for a loving and lasting marriage. This is often overlooked but quite easy to plan and incorporate into the simplicity of planning the wedding and planning for a successful life together as well.
Looking Beyond the Wedding
There are too many couples who actually believe that getting married is all about the elaborate proposal and upscale wedding. The idea of giving thought to what actually happens after the wedding is over is one that should motivate couples to plan for their marriage to succeed. The decision to get expert premarital counseling is one that can actually save the marriage before it’s actually in jeopardy of failing. The counseling sessions provide a platform of open dialogue in a professional environment that encourages the participants to openly express their thoughts and goals regarding the marriage.
Effective Communication
It is unbelievable how many couples actually spend years together before marrying but have no idea how to communicate with each other. This is what premarital counseling teaches them and the ability to understand how to effectively communicate with your partner makes all the difference in a marriage. Counselors have been thoroughly educated on how to engage the couples and encourage them to interact in the sessions, as well as open up about their fears and anxieties. This is the foundation for establishing a solid marriage that is designed to last and deliver a lifetime of happiness.
Overcoming Reluctance
Often times, couples are reluctant to bring up certain topics of discussion out of feat that the subject won’t be well received or an argument will erupt. Premarital counseling is the ideal setting for these type of circumstances and often work out very well for couple discussions. The counselor serves as the mediator who has a neutral opinion in the overall topic of conversation and can always offer a non-biased solution or method of resolve for consideration. The setting is one that helps couples to feel that anything can be discussed without hurting the other’s feelings because listening and understanding is always encouraged by the counselor.
Premarital Counseling Newport Beach CA is highly utilized by newly engaged couples. Dr. Jeanne Michele provides a proactive avenue of resolution for couples before they find themselves in need of it.
